The New York Times reports on a return of etiquette by the younger generation sick of snark, irony and rudeness:
Are manners dead? Cellphones, Twitter and Facebook may be killing off the old civilities and good graces, but a new generation of etiquette gurus, good-manner bloggers and self-appointed YouTube arbiters is rising to make old-fashioned protocols relevant to a new generation.
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Young people “are getting sick of the irony, rudeness and snark that is so prevalent in their online lives,” said Jane Pratt, the editor in chief of xoJane, a women’s lifestyle site where etiquette posts are a popular feature. “The return of etiquette is in part a response to the harshness of the interactions they are having in the digital sphere.”
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I’m not sure I would go as far as “a return to etiquette”, but I’m weary of snark.
I like the words I’ve heard spoken (or at least how I heard them) by Canon Charles LaFond:
“Kind and effective, but not nice.”
This fits my understanding of the GenX me: I have little tolerance for the “fakeness” of nice, which I think gives rise to snark.
However, I think kindness is warranted in almost all circumstances. Public snark is not kind.