Scotland: marriage equality is the law

Good news from Scotland! The Rev. Kelvin Holdsworth, Provost of St Mary’s Cathedral in Glasgow, reports:

Marriage and Civil Partnership Bill Passes by 105 to 18!

Now, today, a huge thing has happened. I can now get married, should someone want to have me. Inevitably, my view of marriage and relationships has been coloured by being formed in a world where I was excluded from the possibility. I never got to think or dream about what I’d wear, where it would be or who I would be standing next to. I never got to imagine being with someone through thick and thin, for good and for bad, ’til death us do part. And I still can’t imagine what it would be like to hear and feel the full acceptance and love of the world around me should I ever be able to stand at an altar and declare that I want to be with someone forever.

For some of the silences still remain. For the last three years I’ve been named on the Pink List as one of the most influential gay people in the UK. Were I to achieve national recognition in any other area, I could probably expect my bishop and other leaders in the church to contact me privately, congratulate me publicly and the institution that I work for to be proud of me. Instead of that, at the moments when friends have been cheering me on as a national newspaper recognised some of what I’ve done, I’ve heard from the institution I work for that same silence that I know all too well.

However, I’m hopeful. I’ve seen the military change. I’ve seen the police change. I’ve seen newspapers change. I’m seeing schools change. And as it has happened, I’ve changed. I’ve become more of the person I really am. Like others who identify as gay or lesbian, I’ve become more whole.

A video from the campaign:

Comments (2)

Wonderful news. It strikes me that at least some American conservatives opposed to equal rights and marriage equality must find it a tad irksome that they are standing against much of the free world and with Vladimir Putin.

Especially in (the Luciferian?) light of Russia, Uganda, and Nigeria---THANKS BE TO GOD!

JC Fisher

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