What goes around comes around, or so we can hope

The Alban Institute features Carol Howard Merritt's analysis of the challenge mainline congregations face, and how they should respond, adapted from her book Reframing Hope: Vital Ministry in a New Generation:


I cannot remember a time when the church was the hub of society and life. I was born in the 1970s, part of Generation X. I never lived in a church-centered world. When older members of my congregation tell me about it, I can imagine what it might have been like, just as I can envision a time when people went to church three times a week. But I have never lived in that reality. I’ve always been in a culture where church was a place my friends visited on Christmas Eve—and now even that tradition is beginning to fade. I grew up in the midst of church news filled with clergy affairs, prostitution, and pedophilia. Throughout most of my ministry, I have worked in the shadow of these dark wounds of Christianity, laboring in a world in which the church is renowned for its sex scandals and conservative politics, a world in which people proclaim, “Religion poisons everything.”

This is the culture I know. And this, strangely, is the place I feel most comfortable. It is not that I am happy about our current circumstances but simply that I have not experienced anything else. When I introduce myself as a pastor at parties or neighborhood gatherings, I encounter little awe or respect. Instead, I am met with a ravenous curiosity, as if people did not even realize it was still possible to make that career choice.

Yet, as many mainline churches move farther and farther to the sidelines of our culture, as megachurches lose their entertainment value, and as denominational leaders look to the next generation, there is a great deal of hope waiting to be kindled. I find inspiration in our growing congregation at Western Presbyterian Church in Washington, DC, and in the fact that those who show up to worship here are drawn by a deep sense of community and search for God. I am encouraged by the larger landscape as well. The movement of young adults into urban centers and their ever-increasing reliance on local economies means the model that drove people to the megachurch is breaking down. Urban congregations that did not fare well during the 1970s and 1980s are beginning to see new vitality. The new pictures now coming into focus are shaped by changing demographics, shifting social concerns, and burning spiritual yearnings. As we look toward the future, we can see streams of living water bubbling.

When we consider the progressive political leanings of younger generations, we realize they long for spiritual communities that care deeply about social-justice issues—the same issues that our denominational congregations have been organizing around for hundreds of years. There is a deep spiritual yearning pervasive across generations, yet we know people will no longer settle for one-way preaching and entertaining services. They want meaningful worship, an empowered lay leadership, and a spirituality that leads to action. Again, people are longing for the very things that many denominational churches have been cultivating for decades.

Is she right?

Comments (2)

I remember time when the church was the hub of society. It was the 3-4 years I spent in Mississippi.

The problem I have with sweeping statements like this is the assumption that the author's experience is universal. It isn't. Not all parts of this country are moving forward at the same rate. I think this is part of the reason for the conservative blowback we are experiencing on so many issues today.

Carol Howard Merritt's book is one I hope to read soon, and many other ministers and priests in Gen X (of which I am a member) are enjoying her thoughts...

I think that she may have captured some of the sense of yearning that is true of her generation (as it was also true of many others). However, I believe that when people look for community and even work for social justice, they are finding those yearnings met outside of the church as much as inside the church - be it at yoga class, in outdoor clubs, book groups, personal spiritual directors and many others. I think that the church still can be "one" of the places where people seek and find community, worship, and work for social change, but the church would need to engage and change in order to do this well.

In my experience, one of the church's biggest stumbling blocks is that we are wedded to our huge buildings and we are wedded to "doing church" on Sunday mornings. The big buildings mean we have to be property managers (Jesus didn't say much about this at all!!), and our devotion to church on Sunday morning means we are in direct competition with the only time in the week that families have together, as well as time to enjoy nature, time for children's activities, and athletics and all the rest.

If we can wrestle with how much we need to keep and manage our buildings, and if we can wrestle with new forms of church that might happen in other times of the week, in other venues, we may begin to find a way to be the place that people yearn for...

...But I also agree with Paul, that these statements are sweeping, and not everyone has experiences the same issues, depending on perspective and context.

Good food for thought,

Peter Carey+

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