At home on the range

By Ann Fontaine

Sundays, I often drive 125 miles or more to church crossing the trails of the great migrations of peoples searching for a better life. In Wyoming towns are distant from one another and mostly small. Churches with over 100 members are considered large. Many counties are larger in area than the state of Massachusetts.

I grew up in a city and love cities but now I live in a town of 6,000 people. This is considered a medium-sized community. One church I serve has 4-7 average attendance. The town is called Eden and the church is Oregon Trail Memorial Church. It is located in an irrigated area of the high plateau of the continental divide. The economy was mainly ranching and hay crops but now it is on the edge of the development of vast gas and oil fields. Newcomers are arriving to work on the rigs and in construction. Long time residents know that this is the usual boom and bust cycle of Wyoming so there is hesitation to involve oneself in the life of the newcomers who will soon move on to new jobs.

There is a sense that what others do is their business. Although watching and discussing “neighbor TV” is the favorite sport, there is quite a bit of space for living as one wishes as long as you don’t tell others how to live their lives. However, when a great need arises all this independence and isolation vanishes.

Recently in Basin, Wyoming, tragedy struck. First there was a terrible car wreck. The mother was killed and the daughter gravely injured. A few months later, their uninsured family home burned to the ground. There were no injuries but everything was lost. St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church and other members of the community responded to help this family. The Diocese of Wyoming sent out a plea for assistance for the family to all the churches in the state.

The first letter was sent to the members of St. Andrew’s and then forwarded on to the Diocesan listserv:

Please send the prayer chain forward, The Durneys' house burned down today, I don't know how much is left, everyone is okay. Please keep them in you prayers and wishes. Everything is probably gone, anyone willing to help out please do. Clothes are going to be needed for everyone and more importantly just give them your love and prayers. They need it. Thank you and God Bless you.
We know people are wanting to know how they can help the Durney Family:
Their home was completely destroyed as was the motor home beside it. The garage is ok.
No one was hurt, but those at home were checked out and were in shock. There were 4 at home -- Carrie and her little 4-yr. old, Stephen and Matt. Shannon and Alethia were in Powell.
Richard and Beka are in Virginia.
The only clothes and shoes are what they had on
Someone had found them a place to stay for now.
This is the family who lost their mother, Anne, in a car wreck recently - daughter Beka was injured. Now this.

In the letter were ways people could help and where to contribute to a fund for monetary gifts.

As reported in the Casper Star Tribune:

POWELL -- Every family faces trials, but the Durney family seems to have gotten more than its share this year. On Jan. 19, the mother, Anne, was killed in an automobile accident that left one of the daughters, Rebekah, 18, suffering from severe injuries.
With Rebekah still trying to recover, the family home -- on rural property about seven to 10 miles west of Basin -- was destroyed in a fire on Friday. … Anne and her husband, Richard, had several children ranging in age from the late teens to just under 30 -- and at least four of them were living or staying in the home at the time of the fire. Nobody was hurt in the blaze. And two of the Durneys' sons also escaped serious injury in a recent rollover auto accident they were involved in, Alberts said. "You want to talk about bad luck, they've had so much of it this year," he said.

One positive side to the story is the response of the community to the Durneys' needs.


This is the story of one family and tragedy and community response but it is repeated over and over in Wyoming. It is still a place where people will stop and help change your flat tire as well as respond to major events in the lives of friends and strangers.

There are disadvantages to small town life and small churches. Sushi is rarely available and often our organist is a small box called a digital hymnal. People can be mean and terrible just like everywhere. Shopping is not something that can be done on a whim – malls are few and far between. Winter can happen any month of the year. But then something will happen that calls out the best in us, and I know I have a home on the range.

Driving to Rock Springs on a Sunday morning

morning sun
rising above the rim
of hills
catching the red
of a sweater worn by a woman
walking out to feed her horse.
Dry Lake sparkling with water
and bright white of pelicans
antelope racing through the sagebrush
and deer risking death
leaping across the road
bald eagle
surrounded by ravens
feasting on the night's road kill.
briefly rising from their meal
disturbed by my passing car.
the new road
passing the old iron mine
leaping up to the horizon
leading to South Pass and the Continental Divide.
crossing paths with my twelve year old great grandmother and her family
on the Oregon trail
on their way to better days.
driving on to Farson
where travelers could buy huge ice cream cones
but no longer
the old stone building stands desolate

turning towards Eden I pass the church
where soon 2 or 3 will gather
around dry wafers
and make it bread of life
but for now I race past on my way to Rock Springs
where we sing out bravely
a cappella
our organists
traveling on a different journey this morning

The Rev. Ann Fontaine, Diocese of Wyoming, keeps the blogs Green Lent and what the tide brings in. She is the author of Streams of Mercy: a meditative commentary on the Bible.

Comments (5)

Beautiful, Ann. Thank you.
Jean

Ann, this is a lovely piece that conveys the feelings of driving through Wyoming very well. I live just south of you--in Colorado, a state which has large parts, notably the eastern plains and mountainous center, with the same kind of isolation as Wyoming. We love the natural beauty, try our best to love our neighbors and care for them, and endure the isolation wrought by closed mountain passes and long winter storms and their aftermath. The people of the isolation still do need our remembrance and care, especially in times of tragedy and runs of bad luck. Occasionally the tornados hit, like last week in Windsor, a little town just northeast of where I live, with a small Episcopal congregation that's trying to grow. -- Lelanda

P.S. A note from our Diocesan Office says that over $8000 was raised from churches around Wyoming- in a week with more coming in.

Ann,

It's definitely an eye-opening and touching piece for me to read. Personally, I grew up in environments where there are plenty of churches to choose from, whether it's in Hong Kong or in Los Angeles. So, I have a little cultural shock when I read this.

If you want to find a small church in the diocese of LA, then you should go to somewhere like Wrightwood or Big Bear... I forgot. But, the size of its congregation is less than 20 and the surroundings is very similar to your church. I know this when I overheard it at my diocese's convention last year.

Anyway, I do have some experience in a small church, since my first church in the diocese of LA is small, too. It's small relative to the average turnout of the Episcopal Church anyway. After all, it's combined attendance of the services equals to the average and a good proportion of people attended more than one of the services. Since I used to be an active member there before relocating to another church in the LA diocese this year, I definitely can some perspectives as well.

1. I used to play the organ at my former church. I can tell you from experience, a pianist is all you need in a small church, if you want live music. After all, the organ would drown the people's voices, more often than not. So, a digital hymnal definitely makes sense here.

2. Youth and young adult ministry... it's definitely not an environment conducive to this. If you are a capable youth/young adult in these churches, you have a big responsibility to be the future of these churches. I used to be in this position as well. It takes a special person to fill this role.

3. Sacrifices... I made a ton for my former church. I basically sacrificed a good bit of my college life just for the sake of being a dependable person in case there needs to be somebody to do this and that at the services. Again, it takes a special person to do this.

As for why I left my former church... it's not because I don't like being in a small church. Rather, I just didn't get along with its current rector. Besides, I felt like I was spiritually mature enough to find my own church, thanks to the fact I get to go to many inter-church events in my first few years as a young adult.

All in all, it takes a special person to survive in a small church, and I definitely have to tip my cap to you on that.

- Bill Wong

Ann, this story of love-in-action is beautiful. And your poem is the perfect finishing touch. Thank you.

Prayers and blessings for the Durney family.

June Butler

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